Without Any Unnecessary "No Contact Periods" Or Long Wait Times.
"But, but... the 10 gurus who recently popped up on my social media all tell me I should pause contact first..."
Okay. No one’s stopping you from doing that. But if you really want to move forward in your situation, that usually doesn’t happen by doing nothing and waiting.
"Honestly, I feel like I’m in a maze. Some say you should wait 7 days, others talk about 3 weeks, and some even mention months or years... So what’s the right thing to do?"
Well... everything and nothing at the same time. The fact is: You don’t necessarily need to go through a "no contact period" at all -depending on your specific situation, you can save your relationship much faster. How?
That’s exactly what I’m going to show you in my brand-new mini-course, “Skip The Silence - Get Your Ex Back NOW”!
The 5 powerful steps my clients and I use to reconnect with an ex or find closure with confidence and divine love
The 3 secrets to crafting messages and moments that spark connection instantly, without neediness or stress.
How to radiate self-love and magnetic energy, transforming your love story and opening the door to deeper healing at our retreats.
My face, drenched in tears on a Flixbus from Kleve to Cologne, broken by my ex’s new love. 😢
My first workshop in Vienna, 2018, in a sharp suit at a grand hotel table, seven women gripped by my love secrets 🤩
December 2024 in the Sacred Valley (Peru). After a decade as an Ex-Back Coach and a more than 3-year, highly adventurous relationship, it was time to detox from everyday stress, rediscover myself, and give my methods a fresh polish.
Back in 2014, I was a heartbroken globetrotter. My girlfriend had left me for someone else, and shortly after, I developed a method to help others navigate these kinds of situations and, with a lot of love and persistence, reunite with their ex. And that changed everything.
To be honest, I had been so excited to see her again after my first year of traveling the world. I had just returned with my backpack from Australia and Thailand, full of new experiences and energy, only to find out that two days before my return, she had started dating a fellow student. On the Flixbus ride from Kleve to Cologne, my world collapsed, and tears streamed down my face. And as if that wasn’t enough, that same night, while I was staying in a €10 hostel in Cologne, someone stole my smartphone and laptop—coincidentally at the exact same hour my grandmother passed away. So, I woke up the next morning with nothing—love gone, phone gone, laptop gone, grandma gone. My heart was screaming in pain! 😭💔
In the time that followed, I used reflection to heal and made a vow to help others going through similar experiences from then on. Three months later, I published my first ebook, and a year later, my first book. What followed were 10 highly successful years during which I’ve helped thousands of people process their breakups, break free from toxic cycles, part ways with love, or, if desired, reunite with their ex.
Here’s the kicker: For a long time, I, too, was a firm believer in the cure-all method called “no contact.” But when I look at my own life story—and those of many of my students—I have to be honest: No contact doesn’t always make sense. Especially when it comes to moving forward, it’s smarter to analyze the current state of communication with razor-sharp precision and craft a clever message that quickly leads to the desired outcome.
My mentoring clients—ranging from successful doctors to yogis, managers, chief accountants, and many others - love me for exactly this approach. In the “Skip the Silence - Get Your Ex Back NOW” mini-course, I’m publicly sharing my new system, my new approach, for the very first time with the entire world - something I’ve previously only revealed to my top clients.
In South America, shamans and their magical jungle juice opened my heart to divine love (and healed me from the many toxic relationships I’d had up to that point). I learned to meditate, started practicing yoga, and opened myself up to ideas outside the usual thought boxes. My system—I’ll show you in the course how it worked with my own Mexican ex, getting us back together in sometimes less than 30 minutes (even though she had already packed her bags and was practically on her way to the airport)—works true miracles.
Today, 10 years after that bus ride from Kleve to Cologne, I help my clients save their relationships teetering on the edge at lightning speed. Often, this happens even before our first consultation. With over eight books and programs I’ve released on this topic in the past 10 years, I’ve helped thousands celebrate their very own comeback. Sure, tears sometimes flow—but no contact isn’t always necessary. Treating yourself to peace, wellness, and a retreat is something you can absolutely do - for example, at my Sacred Heart Healing Retreat in Egypt at the end of September.
If you’re urgently looking to undo a breakup, grab my new course “Skip the Silence - Get Your Ex Back NOW”. ✨
A private community with dozens of other peaceful yet passionately fiery love warriors
Connect with other heart-connected souls
Find mentors to guide you on your journey
Collaborate and share stories with others
Get peer support and feedback
How to master the Z
With "Z" or "ZED," we mean the "Second First Date" (German: "Zweites Erstes Date" = Z.E.D. = Z) - the reunion with your ex. Everything you need to know about it, you’ll learn in this mini-course.
The complete plan from A to Z on how to get back together
We have templates and guides for almost every conceivable development and situation
Understand in which situations, when, and why a no-contact period makes sense. And when it doesn’t.
Learn to avoid the biggest mistake most people make during their attempts to reconnect and reunite.
How to quickly reignite attraction and love between you again
Get my step-by-step plan for reconnecting in as little as 30 minutes
Which mistakes to avoid in the early phase of rebuilding contact, especially when texting (you absolutely must not come across as needy!)
When it’s time to plan your Z – the Second First Date of your reunion (as soon as the chat and contact between you are flowing again).
A practical, proven Ex-Back Plan that actually works
How to text your ex – with confidence and in alignment with your values
What to do if you stop getting responses to your messages
3 of my best methods to instantly reestablish contact (these simple tips have already helped thousands)
Mindset and spiritual practices for your journey
Get my most popular meditations to win back your ex in your sleep and manifest your magical dream relationship life.
How to develop a strong mindset and vision so powerful that nothing can shake your calm.
How to hold the vision for your love goal even when it feels out of reach
This relationship and transformation coach, who over ten years ago ditched everything to chase his life’s purpose, traveled the world, and helped thousands heal their hearts and find meaning again after rough times.
I’ve spent the last decade pouring into my personal growth and diving deep into love and relationships from every angle solo on my journey and with other hippies, shamans, and spiritual priestesses. After some crazy successes - especially seeing how I could save my own relationship over and over in under 30 minutes - my life’s mission clicked: help others use my new insights to fix their breakups faster than ever, or part ways peacefully with love, all while staying confident and true to their faith.
RECONNECT WITH LOVE
For a long time, I was the biggest cheerleader for the “no-contact rule” that tons of coaches swear by as the ultimate fix. But after my trip to Peru, I took a hard look at my own experiences over the years and realized I didn’t always use or need a no-contact period in every situation. It’s other stuff that really matters—like confidence, persistence, and a solid sense of self-worth. Those are what make the difference when it comes to flipping the script so both partners can talk again on equal footing, fairly and openly. I’m stoked to share my best methods and insights from over a decade in this game with you in this course.
So, if you’re thinking about getting back with your ex and looking for ways to do it without having to go days, weeks, or months with zero contact, jump on this now and grab my new course, Skip The Silence—Get Your Ex Back NOW. I’m convinced nothing will help you more in your situation right now! It’s the perfect first step toward a heartfelt, renewed relationship with your ex—or toward deep healing of your higher, sacred heart, which is what’s waiting for you at one of my Sacred Heart Healing or Soul Awakening retreats.
12+ Journal Prompts and ideas to reignite your confidence and clarity
More than 6 guided meditations to heal your broken heart as quickly as possible, connect with your higher self, and craft the perfect next message
My 15 easy-to-use text templates to break the ice
Step-by-step guide to reconnect fast and avoid common pitfalls
Bonus training on what to do if they’re not responding
A private community to get peer support and our growing tribe!
Without spending $1000’s on overpriced coaching, I’m going to show you how to
✨ Get your ex to respond right away with my top 3 messaging tips
✨ Make your reconnection a heart-deep, life-changing experience
✨ Reunite in as little as 30 minutes using my proven system
✨ Create magical moments that touch the heart of the person you love and give yourself the push you need to start your journey today!
"This course was a game-changer!
After months of silence, I used Jonas Alexanders’s messaging tips and reconnected with my ex in just two hours.
The meditation helped me feel so confident, like I was glowing from the inside. I’m now planning our ‘2nd first date,’ and I can’t wait to join the Sacred Heart Healing retreat in Egypt to deepen this journey.
This system works, and it’s worth every penny!"
Sophie, 32, Life Coach, USA
"I was heartbroken and lost, but this course saved me.
The journal prompts and mindset strategies shifted me from needy to unstoppable in days. I followed the reconnection plan, and my ex and I were back together in less than a day!
Jonas Alexander’s teachings are pure magic. I’m eyeing the Soul Awakening retreat in Bali to keep growing. If you’re hesitating, don’t—this is the real deal!"
Marco, 36, Artist, Italy
"Mind blown!
I never thought I’d reconnect so fast—30 minutes after my first message, we were talking like old times. The spiritual practices, like the guiding star meditation, gave me peace I hadn’t felt in years. Jonas Alexander’s course is a lifeline for anyone wanting love back.
I’m joining the Sacred Reconnection Circle to go deeper. Thank you for giving me my heart back!"
Julia, 34, Yoga Instructor, Canada
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
How do I access the course?
You will be sent an email with login to the student portal where you will be able to immediately watch the trainings and access the workbook and bonuses!
Immediately after you purchase, you will be send an email with your login to get access to the video trainings, workbook, templates, and community.
Can I access the course on mobile?
Yes, on any computer or mobile device with internet ;)
There are some trainings you can download onto your phone.
How long do I have access to the course?
This is lifetime access and the best part? I continue to add new templates and trainings as I launch my retreats in to the world.
We do this together!
Do you offer refunds?
Due to this being a digital course, we do not offer refunds.
But don’t worry, this course is jam packed with information, strategy, and mindset practices!
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